Stop Being A Pansy
There are far too many people feeling justified in their victim-hood. Reality is they’re not even victims. They’re entitled brats wanting something they haven’t worked for.
You have to fall through your failures to get to your successes. You don’t just get the success. Success in anything takes hard work, tears, confusion, stepping outside your comfort zone, blazing a trail through berry vines and brush taller then you are. You have to want it with enough desire to get through all the pain.
When you look at your neighbor and want what they have, you need to ask them how they got it and then take similar action. Not vote someone into office to give it to you. Don’t go take it because you feel everyone should be able to just have it if they want it.
The first step in getting what you want is to believe you can. I love looking at others and seeing what they have. It helps me pick my next goal. I know that if they can do it; I can do it. You can too.
Yes, it will be hard. Stop complaining. It was hard for them also. Ask them to mentor you. I have four mentors and three coaches right not. Why? Because I have BIGGER VISION for my future and a mentor/coach can help me get there faster.
We live in the day an age where microwaves are slow. There is so much technology that allows us to have instantaneously many of the things we desire. You have to remember you are creating your world your life.
You have a dream. You have a desire. You have the ability to create what it is you want. You just need to be patient and believe in yourself and your abilities. There are too many people thinking they should get to pass right to the harvest stage.
No, my friend. You have to prepare the field first. You have to get the seeds. You have to plant the seeds. You have to tend the ground and keep the weeds out. You have to wait for the seeds to germinate and grow. Then you get to harvest the fruit. You don’t get to have an idea and then harvest.
Step 1. Prepare the Field First – Consume books, clear your mind of negative thoughts, choose to believe you can do whatever you desire.
Step 2. Get the Seeds – Decide what it is you want to have, pick your desired outcome, get the details down.
Step 3. Plant the Seeds – You have to put the desired results in front of you every day, pictures, video, deep thinking, writing it in story form.
Step 4. Keep the Weeds Out – You need to continue to think positive thoughts about your future and get rid of all the negative. What kinds of things do you listen to, watch, talk about? Be very careful what you put into your marvelous mind.
Step 5. Gestation Period – The time it takes for your BIGGER VISION to show up. The more you follow the steps the better you get at creating. Each person has their own timeframe they will need to follow. Hang in there and don’t get discouraged. It will happen. Study Bamboo.
Step 6. Harvest – The fun part. The one everyone wants. The one most people want to skip to. However, there is no skipping. You must follow all the steps.
Now, the only question left is what to you want to harvest? Whatever you want to harvest, you must plant.
I know some people get their harvest from other people’s labor. However, that means you are dependent on others for the rest of your life. It may look like freedom on the surface but in reality, it is the worst kind of servitude.
When you get things handed to you from another person, that person can decide to take them away at any time. You are at their mercy. Nobody wants to carry the entire load forever. You must do your part.
Stop being a pansy. Step up and take care of yourself to the best of your ability. Guess what? You are capable of more than you think you are. You can do hard things. You’ll thank me when you’re harvesting.