Crack Your Code Part 1 of 4

Crack Your Code Part 1 of 4

If you know Laurence and I, you know we have an incredible relationship. We’ve had people ask us how we do it. Communication. That is the purpose of my newsletter today. Helping you take the first step to a deeper more connected relationship.

If you want more love…

If you want more passion…

If you want to understand your spouse better…

If you want to communicate better…

You need to find out what language your spouse is speaking.

We have a system that can help you do all of the above and more. This is step one of four. The fourth step will be at our home in Cedar Hills March 5, 2016. If you can’t make it, that is just fine because we will record it for you.

Step one: Answer the following 20 questions. I will tabulate your results and get it back to you. There is no right or wrong answer just answer it with what you believe about yourself.

Take the next 5-7 minutes and quietly and individually complete the following questions. Then email the results back to me.

5=True of you 80 to 100% of the time. (almost always)

4=True of you 60 to 79% of the time. (often)

3=True of you 40 to 59% of the time. (about half)

2=True of you 20 to 39% of the time. (sometimes)

1=True of you 0 to 19% of the time. (never or rarely)


_____ 1. I look for opportunities to serve and help others.

_____ 2. I embrace risk.

_____ 3. I believe that it is important that rules are enforced.

_____ 4. I highly value competence.

_____ 5. I value predictability in my life.

_____ 6. I make decisions based on good analysis and good data.

_____ 7. I tend to be compassionate and tender to most people.

_____ 8. I need to be the leader.

_____ 9. I find joy in charitable giving.

_____ 10. I prefer having a step-by-step system to follow.

_____ 11. I place great value on expertise.

_____ 12. I like to be the center of attention.

_____ 13. I crave stimulation and excitement.

_____ 14. I highly value intelligence.

_____ 15. I am passionate about supporting the causes that I believe in.

_____ 16. I am disciplined and like to follow protocols, guidelines, and timelines.

_____ 17. I crave a lifestyle of fame and fortune.

_____ 18. I value science and the scientific method.

_____19. I value stability over change.

_____ 20. It is important for me to make deep connections with other people.


Thank you for taking the time to fill this out. You are on your way to a healthier, happier, more fulfilled relationship.

I’ll be in touch soon.

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