Understanding Your Code Part 2 of 4

Understanding Your Code Part 2 of 4

Part 2 of 4

We had great response to last week’s questions. Thank you all for your time.

I went thought this process just like you did. I’m very glad I did because I never would have known my real code if I hadn’t. You see K- knowledge is my first card. Because of all the learning differences I had throughout school I never would have put it first. It makes since though. I am a Knowledge that evacuated the entire school because of a mishap in chemistry lab. I’m a K that couldn’t read very well until I was a sophomore in high school. I’m a K that couldn’t talk very well.

I never fit in. When I found this out about me, my entire life shifted into perspective. Tony Robbins says, “Life happens FOR you not to you.” My struggling in school suddenly made sense. My life has happened FOR me so I can be the person I am now. It happened FOR me so I could help all those students at Summit High School and now around the world. How has your life happened FOR you?

Were you a K first? K stands for Knowledge.

You have an ADVANCED INTELLECT and are a PERPETUAL learner.You have an uncanny ability to sort through complex issues by using your logic and reason. Abstract ideas are a piece of cake for you to understand. You dislike rote memorization without completely understanding the underlying concepts. You’re a master at using diagrams and models to communicate abstractions. You can easily juggle several issues in your mind at once while focusing on long-term results. You’re a life student of precision, and value it within your relationships, as you map out your strategies and overall plan for the future. You don’t find joy in idle chitchat or small talk, since you desire substance in your conversations. You resolve conflict logically, rationally, and without letting emotions get in the way.

You are amazing at spotting errors long before other people do. You are often hardest on yourself and are usually on a quest for self-mastery. You want power over nature and are attracted to the sciences to satiate your thirst for knowledge. You are a strategic planner, an abstract thinker, and a problem solver who is excellent at dealing with complex issues.


  • Strategic Thinking
  • Abstract Thinking
  • Being Visionary
  • Using Precision in Thought and Language
  • Dealing with Complexity
  • Theory Development
  • Perpetual Learning
  • Rationality
  • Problem Solving
  • Analysis
  • Searching for a Better Way
  • Creating

My next letter was B – Blueprint. My husband’s first letter is B – Blueprint. That is why when I’m excited to try something new (Research for the Knowledge in me) he is hesitant. I thought by his silence and hesitation he didn’t believe in me or trust me. Now, I know it’s just him trying to come up with the steps or a plan to follow. He always told me he believed in me. However, I was looking at his actions through my lens not his lens. Knowing his lens has made all the difference these past couple of weeks. Our relationship is even better now.

You are a RESPONSIBLE and DETAIL-ORIENTED person.You are great at following the rules and you expect others to do the same. You trust authority and see the world as very black and white. There is a RIGHT and there is a WRONG and you clearly understand the difference between the two. Your ethics are solid and you choose not to associate with people who don’t share the same moral code as you. Your word is your bond and you expect others to keep their word also. You honor your roots and have an amazing love for, and understanding of, the value of home.

You are excellent at working with and within systems and thoroughly enjoy the stability and efficiency of time-tested, proven, and predictable systems. You typically run an excellent meeting and are often prepared with a well-thought-out agenda. You respect people’s time and you’re rarely, if EVER, late for an important meeting (or any meeting for that matter). In your business life and your personal life you have a hard time respecting people who are frequently late. You learn best through memorization, recall, and drill. In most cases, you proceed with caution and oftentimes learn your best lessons from your mistakes. You rarely make the same mistake twice.


  • Planning
  • Organizing
  • Managing
  • Implementing
  • Sequential Thinking
  • Following Systems
  • Logistics
  • Details
  • Discipline
  • Tenacity
  • Responsibility
  • Commitment

If you have N – Nurturing as your top card, you are the saints of this world. Mine was third. We have all each of these four divisions in us. We just lead with our strengths. The N in me is why I was able to take Mom in when she needed me. The N – Nurturing in you drives you to have deep relationships and to help others.

While we have all four traits in us, it is not better to have one over the other three. They are all needed and very valuable.


You are a kind-hearted LOVER of PEOPLE.You love to empower people and support them to always be their best. Passion radiates from you and you are filled with transparent and authentic enthusiasm about EVERYTHING you touch in life. You try to express your appreciation of your fellow man often and seek to associate with similar people. The fact that you LOVE interacting with people is an understatement. However, fake and inauthentic people are a total turn-off for you. You excel at training, motivating, mentoring, and counseling other people and find this FUN and rewarding. Self-actualization is your life’s mission and you lead others to follow your excellent example. You avoid conflict, contention, and excessive competition and are, above all, potential-oriented.

Your sense of community and charity is very strong as you seek for a deeper meaning in life beyond material possessions. You often find yourself focusing on personal development while keeping a keen eye on morality and ethics. Harmony in your relationships is important to you as you continually seek to make a significant contribution to your community and to your fellow human beings.

Simply put… you are ONE COOL human being! YOU make the world a BETTER PLACE!!!


  • Diplomacy
  • Empathy
  • Imagining
  • Inspiring
  • Encouraging
  • Romance
  • Being a Catalyst
  • Counseling
  • Communication
  • People Skills
  • Using Metaphors
  • Building Rapport
  • Mentoring
  • Envisioning the Ideal

My final card A-Action is Laurence’s second. It helped me understand why I don’t always want to go out with friends when he does. I’m glad it is his second card and not his first because it would have caused us some problems in the past.

I do not use the fact that I am A-Action last to stop me from doing things. It just takes me a moment to bring up my Action abilities. I have to tap into them. I always have fun when I do.


You are a BALL. OF. FIRE. BAM! Stand back!You are charismatic, fun, and have an entrepreneurial streak in you. A born rebel, you rally against routine, rules, and structure. You are—by nature—entertaining, and therefore BOREDOM is PAINFUL to you. There’s nothing you dislike more than waiting (for anything!) or having your time wasted. Being a “GO GETTER” might be an underestimate – you recognize opportunity and attack it. You are a master promoter and a fierce competitor at building teams, closing sales, and telling stories with effortless ease. Your negotiation skills are unparalleled. Anyone would love to have you in their corner during a crisis.

You are optimistic by nature and sometimes act on blind faith. Taking risks simply doesn’t scare you, and you tend to always work toward, “building the better mouse trap.” Typically, you learn best through show, not tell, and prefer the hands-on approach. You tend to move gracefully, and have a natural-born dexterity with tools, sports, and the arts. You appreciate beauty and enjoy surrounding yourself with all things aesthetically pleasing.


  • Promoting
  • Tactics
  • Story Telling
  • Pulling Things Together
  • Performing
  • Negotiating
  • Having Fun
  • Entertaining
  • Improvising
  • Competing
  • Realistic Problem Solving
  • Troubleshooting
  • Handling Crises
  • Flexibility
  • Creating Momentum
  • Building Teams
  • Closing Sales

I have had so much fun over the past few weeks doing research on my friends and family to find out what they are. It’s the K coming out in me.

Thank you for letting me play and in the process help you better understand yourself and your friends and family.

More to come next week.

Thank you for being a part of my community and blessing me with your spectacular self.

Have a dynamic day and live limitless,

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